Phyllis Ellen Rafter,71, of Norcross, GA, died Monday October 6, 2008. The memorial service will be held at 5:00 PM Friday October 10, 2008 at Pilgrimage Presbyterian Church, 4525 Wynn-Russell Dr., Lilburn, 30047 with Rev. Greg McMinn officiating. Phyllis was a Media Specialist at B.B. Harris Elementary school, a member of Pilgrimage Presbyterian Church, Northwood Country Club, and Boeing North American Retirees Club. She was very active with the Girl Scouts of America and was Administrator of the Kennesaw State University Softball Booster Club. She is survived by her husband of 45 years, Martin Rafter of Norcross; daughters and son-in-law; Kathleen and Bruce Wengryn of Snellville, Sherry Rafter of Duluth, and Kelly Rafter of Lilburn; mother; Mildred Ellen Young Parker of Springfield, OH; brother and sister-in-law, David and Carol Parker of Huntsville, OH; grandchildren, Kierstin and Andrew Wengryn of Snellville. Phyllis was a very loving wife, mother, grandmother and friend that will be dearly missed. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the American Cancer Society or to the Girl Scouts of America. The family will receive friends Friday from 3:00 - 5:00 PM at the church. Arrangements by Bill Head Funeral Homes and Crematory Lilburn/Tucker Chapel 770-564-2726.